Lack of Good Sex = Poor Job Performance

 Can you remember the last time you were out in public dealing with a cashier, clerk, or salesperson that was less than enthusiastic about their job? Maybe they were rude, short, or just unpleasant in general. Have you ever walked away thinking.. "Wow, that person really needs to get laid!!" ?!?  

Call me crazy, but when you aren't happy at home (i.e. in the bedroom), it can transfer into other aspects of your life, including work. Then other people have to deal with the negative side effects like irritability, anger, sadness, & insecurity (just to name a few).

Fortunately, that is not the case with one of my best customers, Amanda who recently sent me a wonderful email. Her job is especially important to me because she works at the preschool my 3 year old son attends.  I know that he is in good hands with someone that is going to not only meet his needs, but be joyful doing so! There is no chip on her shoulder & you can tell that she is an all-around happy person!! :)

Here is Amanda's email:

I would just like to share with you how much Pure Romance has helped me out. I already had a great relationship with my husband, but I wanted to enhance it with some fun and interesting things, so I tried some Pure Romance products. When I fell in love with the Basic Instinct, I began to feel sexier and  more confident. My husband loves what Pure Romance has done for me to make me feel like a sexier woman. I want to thank you for introducing me to these products and I look forward to trying more products and feeling even sexier!!

Amanda     
         

Amanda & her husband, Henry

So in conclusion, a good sex life makes you & the people around you happier!! Or if it's really just a crappy job, you can contact me for more information about becoming a Pure Romance consultant... you are sure to be MUCH happier at your job & in the bedroom!! ;)

Thank you for sharing, Amanda!!

Lubrication 101

I am shocked at the amount of women that I talk to at my parties that do NOT use a lubricant. After being a Pure Romance consultant for over 3 years I couldn't even fathom the thought of going without a good lubricant. Then, I put myself in my customers shoes by remembering what I knew about sex before I stepped into the world of Pure Romance. My ONLY previous experience with lubrication was with KY Warming Mist and let's just say that night didn't have a very happy ending. Fortunately, Pure Romance has an incredible line of lubricants that are both safe & effective. Why a line of lubricants you ask? If I were to ask 10 women what brand of makeup they used I would probably get 10 various answers. You get my point.

Why do I need to use a lubricant?
There are many reasons why every woman should be using lubrication during intercourse or toy play.

1) It makes for a much more comfortable experience. Most women that have pain during or after intercourse is due to lack of proper lubrication.
2) When you aren't properly lubricated, not only can it be painful, it can also cause damage
to your vaginal tissues. When you tear the vaginal walls, it allows bacteria to harbor and grow. Need I say more?
3) Many women take medications that can interfere with natural lubrication. Some of those
medications include anti depressants, antihistamines, and birth control.
4) Even if you have no issues with self lubricating, when you reach climax your body's natural
response it to shut down. So if you are lucky enough to have a partner that outlasts you, the last few minutes could leave you chaffed.
5) Women require lots of foreplay to become lubricated. A large percentage of the women I encounter tell me that foreplay is almost non existent in their sex lives, so chances are they aren't becoming lubricated either.
6) Stress, anxiety, depression, lack of sleep, too much caffeine, not enough exercise & tobacco use are just a few of the many culprits that interfere with a woman's ability to self lubricate. I can't think of one woman I know that doesn't suffer from at least one of those conditions. If you are free from all of those I wanna know what you're taking!! ;)

Every Day Lubes

I like to compare your every day lubricant to your favorite pair of flats. You can wear them everyday, they aren't flashy but they cover your feet. Waterbased lubes like Just Like Me are good for everyday sex. This lubricant has no color or flavor and is designed to be absorbed into your skin. It also has rewetting properties which means when you apply it into the vaginal walls it will absorb and when it's playtime the moisture resurfaces. The best part is that because it feels like your natural secretions he'll have no idea he didn't do it on his own! ;)Unlike many lubes on the market you won't have to keep reapplying more, it doesn't get sticky, and it's perfectly ph balanced, so you won't get an infection.

Playful Lubes

In addition to your comfy everyday shoes, you probably also have a few pairs of heels that you wear on special occasions. You don't vacuum your house in them, but they are fun to have to spice things up a bit. The same goes for fun lubricants. You can get them in a variety of textures & flavors and they each have different functions. If you hate getting carpal tunnel everytime your man wants a handjob then Lickity Stiff will be your new best friend. In addition to providing lubrication, it also includes an arousal property that will help him reach the finale sooner rather than later. Lickity Stiff's creamy texture also makes it ideal for use with male stimulators.
Sensations is another playful lube that warms when you rub it and gets hot when you blow on it. Pick your favorite flavor and he will erupt before you even have to put your mouth on it. ;)

Silicone Lubricants

Pure Pleasure is a silicone based lubricant. It will NOT absorb into your skin, so it is ideal for someone with extreme dryness. It is also great for any water activities or backdoor play. Before you decide to take that adventure, it is absolutely essential that you use a silicone lube. In case you haven't noticed, that is NOT a self lubricating area, which means absolutely NO natural moisture is present. Pure Pleasure will ensure that anything that goes in also comes back out (comfortably). One important thing to know about Pure Pleasure is that it is not compatible with silicone toys. Silicone + Silicone = Toy Meltdown
The good news is that Pure Romance understands the importance of having a waterproof lube to use with your waterproof toys. We now have a silicone based lube that is also compatible with ALL toys. It is called Pure Silk.. And feels just like it's name.

So pick your occasion, favorite lubes, & have fun!!



Do you a have a question I didn't answer?
Email me BrookeRash@pureromance.com and I can help you choose the lubricants that are right for you!
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How did you know your son had autism?

 When it first came to our attention that there was an issue, I must have googled "Does my kid have autism?" or "How do I know if my child is autistic?" a gazillion times.  You can read the list of symptoms, signs, & red flags all day long, but until you actually SEE those things in play it is hard to tell. I finally found a video on YouTube that made me realize my son probably had autism. You can take that list of  signs and rationalize each one all day long. Obviously it is very difficult for a parent to accept that their child may have a disability. So, here is a video of Beckett that was taken on his 2nd birthday. You can see some head shaking, running in circles, & what appears to be him ignoring his daddy. I hope that this may help any parent out there that is concerned about their baby.

View Beckett's video here: Does my child have autism? 

So... what do you do for a living?!?!

 After 3 years of being a Pure Romance consultant I still have a hard time explaining to other people what I do. Sure I have my whole "30second commercial" ready to go, but the words still seem to trip over each other as they roll off my tongue. I never quite know how someone will react to it. I usually get DEAD SILENCE or "really?! no way!! I want to have a party!!!".

I have finally realized that the people that have a negative connotation about my career have most likely never experienced a truly fulfilling sexual relationship. Unfortunately many women have been brought up with negative views on sex. They usually view it as a chore.... You know do the dishes, fold the laundry, have sex with your spouse, scrub the toilets,etc. Last time I checked chores aren't a whole lot of fun.

My job is to help empower women with the tools they need to have truly satisfying relationships both in & outside of the bedroom. I think we can all agree that when things are going well in the bedroom, life is usually good everywhere else!

So it finally came to me, I am an "Intimacy Expert". Sound sophisticated enough you think?

I can help you go from this......

to this...

 WHICH would you prefer?!

Why am I starting a blog?

Turns out my life is anything but typical. Every morning when the whole world is rushing to their boring, day in and day out "jobs", I am doing just about anything I damn well please. 

Jealous yet?! 

My husband & I are living the All American dream... freedom from corporate America! He has more energy than a 5 yr old on Halloween & runs a popular, local boot camp as a personal trainer.

 I am a Pure Romance consultant & intimacy expert. I make my living by providing women with a safe, fun, & comfortable atmosphere to learn how to enhance their sex lives! Still not interested?!

Just when we thought life couldn't get any better, our bubble was busted!  We got a huge reality check when our 2 yr old son was diagnosed with autism. Obviously, we were devastated to hear that our adorable son wasn't "typical". What at first seemed like a tragedy, has now turned into a lightbulb moment for us. 

We now count our blessings everyday & thank God that he has blessed us beyond measure. We have learned so much about life & God's plan for us through this experience.

So people are constantly asking me for advice about a variety of issues from autism to sex. I thought this might be a creative outlet for me to share with the world some of the new things we are discovering daily. :)